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The President's Pen

A blog by Larry Carter, President of Great Lakes Christian College

Larry Carter’s passion is Ministry. This blog serves to encourage ministers to feed their passion.

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It seems everyone wants to be a victim these days. From elected officials who believe they are simply targets of partisan politics to the average man in the street that feels like the whole world is out to get him. You hear, almost daily, about minorities and discrimination, gays and homophobia, senior citizens and gray-bashing, and children and dysfunctional families. Join any group and you’ll hear someone complaining about how they have been victimized. I guess somebody has to be blamed. Now, I understand that we do have true victims in our society. I don’t want to down play the seriousness of the issue. But, it seems to me that the practice of blaming has been raised to an art form. I heard recently about an Associate Minister who had been arrested for soliciting an undercover cop for sexual favors. When the elders went to talk with him about the situation he said it was the Senior Minister’s fault because he didn’t show him enough attention or respect so he was driven to find assurance in the arms of another man.


Why is it that we have produced a generation of victims? People who feel that life can be never be meaningful because of an injustice they’ve suffered. People who feel that until they get what they think they deserve they will never be free, happy, fulfilled, or whatever. People who spend a lot of time blaming others for their circumstances rather than blessing others despite their circumstances. People who appear to be the exact opposite of a man like Joseph.

 

Eric Sevareid once commented about Harry Truman, “I am not sure he was right about the atomic bomb or even about Korea. But remembering him reminds people what a man in office ought to be like. Its character. Just character. He stands like a rock in my memory now.”

 

Joseph does the same. Despite sibling abuse of the worst kind, despite societal injustice and even false imprisonment, Joseph was a rock of character. Character that refused to wallow in self-pity. Character that refrained from having a bitter heart. Character that retained a positive spirit in the most negative of places. Character that remained grateful even in the midst of the difficult times.

 

Where did this character find its source? I heard recently about an interview involving a Navy Seal. He was asked how he was able to do what he had to do. How were you able to go through rigorous training and persevere through some arduous missions? He said they have a saying in the Seals that is represented by the letters DWI. They stand for “Deal With It”. You just have to deal with it – no matter what it is.

 

With Joseph there was something more. He didn’t just get his mind focused on dealing with it. His character was determined by his relationship with God. At the end of his life he had an opportunity to talk with his family about what they had done to him. He could’ve used that moment to rant and rave and play the victim – but he didn’t. He said to them, “You meant evil against me, but God meant it for good in order to bring about this present result, to preserve many people alive.” This wasn’t something he said with hindsight – this was how he lived his whole life. I’m sure that there were moments of doubt wondering if God had somehow forgotten him. But, rather than give up and play the victim Joseph stood tall relying on his relationship with God to pull him through.

 

I think it’s significant that when his family expressed a concern about their future Joseph said, “God will surely take care of you.” He then repeated it in the next verse, “God will surely take care of you.” He had experienced that care his whole life.

 

We do have a choice in life. One is to play the victim and say, “Look what life has done to me.” The other is to be a victor and say, “Look what my God has done for me.” It’s a matter of character. And character finds its greatest source in God.